1. Every once in awhile, greet her with a hug and whisper in her ear something along the lines of "you look beautiful"

 

 

2. At school if she is with her friends and you are with yours, don't come up to her and be too touchy. It will embarrass her in front of her friends. Just come up to her and talk with her and her friends. Be casual, she likes you for who you are!

 

3. When you are alone, hold her, she wants you to. Hold her around her waist if the time is right.

4. Be Honest! If problems arise, talk it out together; leaving things like this build up could destroy the relationship.

 

 

 FURTHER TIPS

• If you're ready to start touching her, hug her from behind when she's at her locker or put your hands over her eyes and say, "guess who.." It sounds cheesy but trust me, girls love it!
• When you are going in for the kiss, lean in 50% of the way and let her lean in the last 50% to see if she wants to kiss you.
• And always make sure your teeth are clean and your breath smells good!
• Be yourself. Show her yourself, and your love for her.
• You will want to shower everyday and smell clean. Put some body fragrance on to turn her on. (don't overdo it cause it could be a big turn off and she won't even want to be near you!)
• Slip sweet notes to her telling her how much you love her, such as "thank you for being you", and "you're the best".
• If you think she's cute, tell her. Talk to her about your feelings, about anything even if its something she really doesn't care or even know about, the content doesn't matter, its the gesture that matters.
• When at the movies, putting your arm around her is a must!

 

How To Be The Perfect Girlfriend

The last post was on becoming the best Boyfriend  i got numerous e-mails calltite@gmail.com  from female folks asking same question about their gender, now here's the answer with just a few simple tips, you can be the perfect girlfriend - making him want to be the perfect boyfriend.  Learn with us and put to practice from www.loversguide101.blogspot.com how to do all you need to, to become the perfect girlfriend and look after your little caveman.

Step 1: Relax your standards

The perfect girlfriend is not a plastic doll. don't be artificial, while you should endeavour to maintain your femininity, once in a while let your guard down: eat like a pig, slouch around, or leave the washing up. You can even surprise him be getting him to pull your finger. This way he will feel comfortable in your presence, and you in his.

Step 2: Massage his ego

Remember that the male ego is as fragile as it was all those years ago when he first lost his way back to the cave. Make your boyfriend feel good about himself - even if he is getting in your way- let him be useful and tell him he's great. Don't nag him into submission, as there is nothing sexy about a downtrodden man.
You know the bed's not made properly, but congratulate him on having a go. You know that isn't an omelette, but it contains eggs doesn't it? So well done him!

Step 3: But make an effort

With this in mind, remember that it is important to make an effort and sometimes dress up special. We know it's not practical all the time, but he'll appreciate it, and you'll feel more attractive.

Step 4: Give him space

A man's friends are important to him, and so is his ability to spend time with them, where he will do male activities like growling, fighting and measuring things, simple pursuits that confuse a complex female mind. Allow him the space to maintain these relationships. Let him roam, and when he comes home he'll be ready to spend quality time with you.

Step 5: Feed him

Like it or not, the old adage is true - the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. You don't have to cook, but keep your local takeaway on speed dial. Remember if your boyfriend is hungry, his attention will shift suddenly from you to the fridge. Don't take it personally, it's primal. Symptoms of hunger to look out for include: grumpiness, slightly flared nostrils or he may appear to be hunting. If he gets like this, don't suggest salad.

Step 6: In the bedroom

When it comes to bedtime and matters of the night, your needs may be different. Sex is a simple matter for him: he wants it, whenever, wherever. Never put out if you aren't in the mood, but do accept he always will be, and don't tell him off because he finds you devastatingly attractive all of the time. And if you really don't fancy it, just distract him with beer.

Step 7: Listen to him

We all know that You (Women) love to talk more than anything else. Men also enjoy explaining things. Be it the mechanics of bridges, why Aradite the best Bond, or the complexities of the offside rule, even if he's being patronising allow him his airtime, and he will then shut up, leaving you to enjoy the peace and quiet of a loving and giving relationship.

Step 8: Done

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SIGNS OF A CHEATING BOYFRIEND

Boys am sorry but i have to let the cat out of the bag, with this revealing topic. on the average, boys cheat more than girls though I hear the tide is changing as some girls have more than 3 boyfriends they includes School boyfriend, street Boyfriend, church Boyfriend e.t.c It is commonly believed that the African man is naturally polygamous even as a single dude. Thus, their double-dating and cheating are usually endured by the women folk. This is wrong.

Many signs give away any boyfriend and girlfriend who cheat. Please note that the feminine gender can replace the masculine gender wherever they occur in this chapter.

1. Your boyfriend suddenly becomes more caring and becomes more attentive to your needs than usual.
2. Your boyfriend starts showering you with gifts for no apparent reason.
3. You start getting a gut feeling that something isn't right in your relationship.
4. Your boyfriend constantly talks about ending your relationship each time you argue or fight.
5. Your boyfriend constantly picks fights with you.
6. Your mate is excited when leaving you but quiet and moody when he is with you.
7. Your communication starts to break down and you know it's not your fault.
8. Your boyfriend's tastes change e.g. his clothing, music etc...
9. Your boyfriend continually criticizes another girl whom you think he normally would be attracted to.

10. Your boyfriend starts to criticize things about you that he used to find attractive and appealing before.
11. Your mate stops doing something that he knows you really enjoy.
12. Your boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than be with you.
13. He doesn't want to talk about your future relationship.
14. He stops being affectionate to you.
15. He has been acting emotionally distant recently.
16. Your boyfriend talks in his sleep and mentions the name of one particular person on more than one occasion.
17. He's not interested in being intimate any more.
18. He becomes offended when you make simple natural enquiries about situations or people that involve him.
19. Your mate starts paying less and less attention to your kids.
20. Your mate becomes less interested in spending time with you. He starts giving excuses for not being able to do things with you or spend time with you.

These are some of the many signs that you can use to tell if you boyfriend or partner is cheating on you. Remember though that they may be signs that something else is wrong in your relationship or they could be a result of stress unrelated to your relationship
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If you suspicions are based on a particular incident or incidents, it's best to confront your boyfriend right away to establish the truth

The 10 Romantic Habits That Keep Relationships Strong

 Hi Sweetheart,

Hope you are having a wonderful relationship and I wish you all the best! Today I will be sharing with us The Keys to a Successful Relationship, these surprisingly simple practices you can do to stay - or fall back - in love with your partner. Read on for expert tips on how to have a happy relationship.

1. Not trying to change each other

 There are things you shouldnt bother to change about your partner, maybe you wish he folded his socks, or that he would chat it up with your friends without prompting. But, his inability to notice hair in the sink may stem from the laid-back personality that drew you to him in the first place.

"One of the things we see with happy couples is that they know their partner's differences, and have pretty much stopped trying to change the other person," says Darren Wilk,

 "Rather than trying to fight their partner's personality style, they instead focus on each other's strengths."

2. Framing your demands as favors

 Whether you want him to unload the dishwasher more often or pay closer attention to your needs, your partner will be more likely to change his behavior if he feels like he'll get relationship brownie points. "Throw it out there like a favor. Present it like 'here is the recipe for what will make me happy,' because everyone wants to make their partner feel happy," says Wilk. "When you present your needs, present them as what you do want rather than what you don't want." Instead of saying, "I hate when you have to have everything scheduled," try saying, "I would love to have a day where we can just be spontaneous."


3. Vocalizing your appreciation

Giving your partner positive reinforcement sounds like a no-brainer, but couples often forget to do it.

"Relationship expert Gottman's research found that in everyday life, happy couples have 20 positive moments, such as a shared look, compliment, or affectionate touch, to every negative moment," says Wilk.


4. Focusing on the positive

"Unhappy couples are stuck in a negative state of mind," says Wilk. "You will always find what you look for. If you look for stuff that bugs you and that your partner is doing wrong, you will find it every day. If you look at what your partner is doing it right, you'll find it everyday."

It's a choice to flip your mindset, so when you find yourself getting annoyed, visualize something he does that makes your heart flutter to halt the negative thought circuit.

5. Taking trips down memory lane

"Happy couples tend to rewrite history by glossing over the bad stuff and focusing on the happy times," says Wilk. By reliving memories out loud to your partner, it actually changes your mindset, and how you view him and think about your relationship. Try this exercise whenever your feel your relationship needs a boost: Go over the highlights of when you were first dating, or rehearse the best moments of your relationship (such as the day you had an impromptu picnic in the park during your lunch hour, or that surprise anniversary date he took you on) to uncover buried memories.


6. Never siding with the enemy

"Sometimes what affair-proofs a relationship is simply being there when your partner needs to vent, and having their back without trying to fix the problem," says Wilk. "People want someone to listen to them. The key is to be supportive, and never take the side of the person he's venting about, even if you can see where that person is coming from. For example, if he is upset that his boss took away a contract and gave it to someone else in the office, now is not the time to say, "Well, maybe you didn't put your best effort in." Right now he needs his feelings validated, and to hear you say, "That must have been really hard." Happy couples know when to bite their tongues.


Not getting too comfortable

Trust, security, and commitment are key elements in any relationship, but having them doesn't mean you can treat your relationship as rock-solid, and stop trying.

"Relationships are a fragile ecosystem, and that's why there is a 50 percent divorce rate," says Wilk. "Happy couples keep dating, telling each other they look great, and doing things together."


Having rituals of connection

"It's not only about having a date night, but happy couples seem to do a lot of mundane things together," says Wilk. "They have little habits that they decide to do together, whether it be sitting down to pay the bills once a month or folding laundry."

We say, anything to make that pile of dirty clothes feel more manageable.


Knowing your partner's calls for attention

Happy couples are mindful of those little moves their partners do for attention. When Gottman's team studied 120 newlyweds in his Love Lab, they discovered that couples who stayed married six years later were paying attention to these bids for connection 86 percent of the time, compared to only 33 percent of the time for those who later divorced.

So, look out for the little things, and respond to his need to connect. Like if you're grocery shopping and he casually mentions that he hasn't had Fruit Loops since he was a kid, throw them in the cart for him to show that you care.


Doing the little things

"When it comes to relationship satisfaction, you can't just ride on the big things like, 'I don't drink, I pay the bills, I don't beat you, we went to Hawaii last year,'" says Wilk. "This stuff is not really what keeps couples happy in their daily lives."

What really matters is all the small stuff that adds up, such as being there for each other when one needs to vent, or noticing when he needs a hug, or making him his favorite meal just because. "It's also giving up on the idea that you have to feel in love all the time. Marriage is about trust and commitment and knowing each other," says Wilk. "That's what love is."